Box and Bells

POP! Flu addled, I teetered unsteadily to the microwave to investigate.   “Eewww,” I screamed.  There was a kidney or some other organ poking out of the arroz caldo (chicken/turkey rice porridge) my husband was reheating for me as a salve for my illness. He came into the kitchen grinning sheepishly, “Sorry.  I guess I didn’t get all the ‘parts’ out.” It was a conversation rehashed in many forms during the time we were together.  As a white girl growing up in the 60s and 70s in relative affluence, I cut my teeth (literally) on prepared, often prepackaged and pre-cooked food.  He was ...

Maykadeh

We braved the bridge and tunnel crowd on a Saturday night to visit North Beach in the Westbay (San Francisco). Maykadeh has been serving up amazing Persian food for 35 years. We were so glad we declined all the offers to "come and do some shots" from the gentlemen on the street and actually made it to dinner. This place was worth the hardship of refusing those tempting offers...

Bourbon and Beef

Until I saw all the cute boys in the neighborhood, I was seriously pissed that my mom moved me to Rockridge when I was 14 (in 1975). I was a Berkeley kid. Moving to Oakland was uncool. The kids that hung out on the steps of Chabot School (smoking and drinking) were rivals to the kids who hung out at the 7-11 in Elmwood (smoking and drinking). It was a Jets/Sharks kind of situation. Well, without any real threat of violence. Oddly enough, my parents didn’t take my grievances about the situation seriously. With the perspective of an older person and the ...